We all reside in a world which has an abundance of pain and problems which are uncertain. People inherit problems and forget to live a peaceful and happy life. They are bequeathing perpetual pressure on their mind about work-life, social media, peer pressure and putting it above their peace of mind.
It can also be classified as a reflection of the hollow ideas of materialism and a shallow sense of achievement through validation of our peers. The mind is a monkey, it does all the same things it is trained for. It banks on how one trains their mind to react to a certain situation. Your thoughts are the most powerful weapons you’ve got.
“True intelligence operates silently. Stillness is where creativity and solutions to problems are found," said Eckhart Tolle
Positive thinking is all the rage and negative beliefs are so gnarly. To measure the immeasurable your mind needs to be still and extraordinarily quiet. Always reminisce that destruction makes noise and creation are always silent.
Your mind is a part of you, it is a matter of grave concern if you are not able to control even that which is a part of you. Just imagine, if your arm suddenly started punching your face, would you note that insanity? A similar situation is presented to us in the context of the mind. It should not be the zenith of human capability to be able to control the mind, rather it must be considered a prerequisite in order to have a fruitful life.
Here are some tried ways to show your brain who has the ball in their court:
Aim for the best: People always doubt their capabilities and assume that they are unqualified for it and sit around getting ready for it and doing nothing instead. They pass negative subconscious vibes to the Universe and it observes and recoils to it. Instead, you should aim and fit themselves in the situation they always wanted to be in.
Let it be you who’s driving the car and not your brain: You should get the whole caboodle out of your overwhelm head. Be in the driver’s seat and let your powerful thoughts crack the whip. Remove the curtain of vulnerabilities and insecurities and stop being industries running on people’s opinions and approach on you.
Start questioning and stop believing: Believing is a myth and it assuredly forbids one from questioning. When one believes, they don’t question and they kill the possibility of knowing. If one asks a question and asserts that they don’t know then there is a possibility to know.
Surround yourself with people who think like you: You should circle yourselves with people who feel and process like you. Start associating yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be and who want you to grow and flourish.
Stop seeking unwanted validation from the world: You should stop probing acceptance and recognition of hollow and sanctimonious society and start recognizing demons wrapped up in the face of an angel.
Accompany Yourself: The best company you can keep is Yourself. Sit and start observing your movements and actions. Start conceiving all the things that make you happy and be grateful for them.
Love Yourself: Strive towards happiness and remember that you are #1.